How to Embrace Change

How to Embrace Change in an Ever-Changing World: A Feral Mom’s Guide to Staying Grounded!

Let’s face it: the world is in a constant state of chaos. From new technology popping up every other week to the ever-changing demands of life, it sometimes feels like we’re all just hanging on for dear life as everything around us shifts. Add in the daily grind of kids, work, homestead duties, and trying to keep a handle on that massive to-do list, and it’s enough to make anyone want to crawl under a blanket and hide.

But here’s the thing: change isn’t just inevitable, it’s part of growth. Whether it’s in our personal lives, our careers, or the wider world, change is the force that shakes us out of complacency and pushes us to adapt, learn, and thrive. The trick isn’t to try to control it—because trust me, that’s a battle you won’t win—it’s to figure out how to roll with it.

So today, I’m sharing some of my go-to strategies for embracing change with open arms, or at the very least, a stiff drink and a sense of humor.

1. Get Comfortable with Being Uncomfortable
You’ve heard the phrase “comfort zone,” right? It’s that warm, cozy place where everything is familiar, predictable, and, well… boring. The truth is, growth doesn’t happen in the comfort zone. It happens when we’re thrown into unfamiliar situations and have to figure out how to navigate them. Whether it’s learning a new skill, facing a major life shift, or dealing with some curveball that life throws at you—get ready to feel uncomfortable. And that’s okay!

When you start accepting that discomfort is part of the process, you’ll be less likely to resist change. Instead of fighting it, lean into it. Acknowledge that it might suck for a little while, but trust that it’s taking you somewhere new and exciting.

 2. Find the Lesson in Every Shift
Change can be frustrating, but every time something shifts in your world, there’s an opportunity to learn. And not just in the, “Oh great, what did I do wrong this time?” kind of way. I’m talking about learning real lessons that can help you grow stronger, wiser, and more adaptable.

When you’re faced with change, ask yourself, *What can I learn from this?* Maybe it’s a new skill, a different perspective, or a deeper understanding of yourself. Sometimes the hardest changes bring the biggest lessons, and those are the ones that shape who we are. So, look for the growth, even when the change feels like a smack in the face.

3. Be Open to Reinvention
One of the best parts about change is that it gives you permission to reinvent yourself. Whether it’s a small tweak or a complete overhaul, change opens the door to becoming the person you’ve always wanted to be—or maybe even someone you never knew you could be.

When life forces you to pivot, think of it as an opportunity to try something new, explore a different path, or approach things in a way you hadn’t considered before. Reinvention doesn’t mean you’ve lost yourself; it means you’re evolving. And evolution is badass.

Whether it’s starting a new career, launching a passion project (*hello, Rogue Roots Project!*), or simply adopting a new mindset—embracing reinvention allows you to keep growing in a world that never stops changing.

4. Control What You Can, Let Go of What You Can’t
As much as we’d all love to, you can’t control everything. Believe me, I’ve tried. And when you’re running a homestead or raising kids, there are about a million things that can go sideways at any given moment—animals escape, crops fail, kids get sick… and the Wi-Fi goes down. It’s chaos, but it’s also life.

The key is to figure out what you can control, and focus on that. You can control your mindset, your reaction to change, and how you choose to move forward. The rest? Let it go. Trust me, it’s not worth the stress to try and micromanage the things that are out of your hands. When you let go of the need to control every little thing, you make room for peace—and you’re able to handle change with a lot more grace (and less hair-pulling).

 5. Stay Grounded in Your Values
When everything around you feels like it’s shifting, your values become your anchor. No matter what kind of changes you’re facing, hold tight to what matters most to you. Your family, your community, your passions—these are the things that keep you grounded, even when the world is spinning.

For me, it’s my homestead, my family, and the belief that we can create something bigger than ourselves through this crazy life. No matter how much the world changes, those core values stay the same. And when you’re rooted in something solid, you can handle whatever life throws your way with confidence.

6. Laugh Through the Chaos
Honestly, sometimes the best way to deal with change is just to laugh at it. Life is messy, unpredictable, and full of surprises—some good, some not so good. But when you keep a sense of humor about the whole thing, it’s a lot easier to roll with the punches.

There’s a certain magic in being able to laugh at yourself and the situations you find yourself in. So, when you’re feeling overwhelmed by change, take a step back and try to find the humor in it. At the very least, it’ll make for a great story later on.

Final Thoughts:
Change is inevitable—it’s part of life, and the sooner we learn to embrace it, the better off we’ll be. It’s not about having all the answers or knowing exactly what’s coming next. It’s about trusting that, no matter what happens, you’re capable of adapting, learning, and growing from it.

So, whether you’re navigating small changes in your day-to-day life or facing huge, life-altering shifts, remember: you’ve got this. Embrace the discomfort, find the lessons, stay grounded in what matters, and most importantly—laugh through the chaos. Because life’s too short to fight change when you could be dancing with it.

And who knows? This wild ride might just take you somewhere amazing.